a-bag-of-cats asked: Wow, you have inconsiderate and prying anons lately. That must kinda be annoying. I hope they leave you alone. Your life is your life! Good luck :)
I know.. :/ it has been annoying. But it’s okay! Some people lash out at others when they are unhappy. You are very sweet :) thank you!! Hope you’re doing well!
Anonymous asked: I just hope you're not using this relationship to fill the void of the last one....
Thank you. I’m not. I spent an entire year hooking up with guys and using them. I was pretty shitty and very depressed. I really hated the person that I had become. But when I finally decided to focus on my emotional, physical, and spiritual development, everything else seemed to fall into place. For the first time, I feel like someone is truly in love with the real me. I don’t have to change a thing about myself. That’s the best feeling. I’ve never been as happy as I am now. I’m always going to care about my ex, but I am in no way trying to fill a void with my current relationship.
Anonymous asked: Does your new boyfriend know about your obsession with your ex?
I’m not obsessed with my ex. It was definitely a difficult relationship to get over though, partially due to its longevity and how greatly influenced I was by it. My boyfriend knows all about my last relationship. Just because I write about that time in my life doesn’t mean I’m obsessed with it. It’s part of me and will come out in my writing at times. He understands that. It was my first boyfriend and first love… Give me a break.
Anonymous asked: I want to be your friend but I fear you dislike me :(
Why do you think I dislike you??
Society must be organized in such a way that man’s social, loving nature is not separated from his social existence, but becomes one with it. If it is true, as I have tried to show, that love is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence, then any society which excludes, relatively, the development of love, must in the long run perish of its own contradiction with the basic necessities of human nature.
—Erich Fromm (via observando)
Anonymous asked: And if you were wondering why only gay guys date you, it's because you look like a man.
Thanks! I happen to think androgyny is attractive. I really don’t care.
I also don’t understand why someone who has never met me has such pent up hatred towards me. I’m sorry I can’t give you what you want from me? I’m sorry that I post what I want on here and not what you want me to post? And I’m sorry if my responses haven’t been as nice as you would’ve liked from an “ugly girl?” I have been sick all day and haven’t had a high tolerance for anyone. If it had been a different day, maybe I would’ve been nicer, but that doesn’t excuse your behavior. There are infinitely more productive things you can do on the Internet than message me when you apparently don’t even like me. We are all human and hurting. I’m sorry if I’ve offended or disillusioned you, but I really don’t understand the point of this online antagonism. I’m finished answering these. I hope you have a better night. Maybe you just need a hug.